Just in case any of you drop-in from time to time to see if anything is new...

Sadly, things ended somewhat badly in the SAGA of J. She is back here (west coast), but we are not / have not been / seeing each other. We have spoken a few times, but it was nothing significant.

I have been on 2 dates, with 2 different women, since J left. While I liked both of them, I just felt like I was not ready yet. (not over it).

One of them was not happy with my honesty, the other said that she understood, and said to give her a call should I change my mind. I do not expect her to remain on hold during this time.

I have no further information at this time... but should I resume dating anyone -- I'll let you know.